Men dating older women called
For our in-depth analysis of the cougar phenomenon, read on...
There’s been an enormous amount of media coverage centred on older women dating younger men over the last decade.
The now well-known term wasn’t a reference to the Chinese calendar; rather, it was a bordering-on-crass idiom coined to define 40-plus women with a predilection for younger gentlemen.
Although the US-based magazine reasoned that the cougar-craze was a fad destined for cultural oblivion, the article offered up an intriguing explanation for the newfound popularity of older woman/younger man relationships.
I am very flattered by such attention and find the whole thing quite amusing but just exactly what labels do we give them? Much better conversations most of the times and more cultured to boot. Point them in the direction of the kittens and tell them to go play. plus they want someone who know's what they are doing in bed and maybe the curiousity of what an older women can teach them or do to them... Some guys as I believe someone has pointed out already know that older women usually have their shit together, are done playing games, and have some damn good advice and outlook on life in general.
Why on earth with such a large selection of young women their age, would they go after a woman of my age anyway? I just know there's some of you out there with the answer! I'd assume it has to do with sex and the perceived experience a "cougar" is believed to have over us. Q: Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars? Q: Why on earth with such a large selection of young women their age, would they go after a woman of my age anyway? Throw in a little be careful out there momatute just to get the point across. Not to generalize, but that's kinda all you can do on these forums as far as responses, their are older women and younger women that are just as airheaded as the next, but that's what younger men have told pups howl at my door I just pat them on the head and send them on their way.
I have very young guys - under 20 who often approach me in the bars and even after I have explained to them the age difference and my own personal choices, they continue to hit on me. In my mind I call them horndogs, but to their face I say aren't you a sweet young thing because you have to give them "e" for effort. older women are in their prime at the same time they are, so do the math...... no offence young ladies (I've been there) but "the latest ring tone download for your cell" is not stimulating conversation.If I was simply looking for sex I suppose they could be entertaining, as could a guy twice my age... I prefer someone older usually, but not someone who has an ex wife and a few kids.I suppose in some cases, the huge age difference can work, but it just seems to me, when one person has experienced so much and the other has not it would be difficult to build a life together that both people would be happy with.Turns out, there’s lots to love about women of a certain age.Men in their 20s date women over 30 because:“They understand better how to interact in a relationship.”Men in their 40s add:“Women over 30 have stopped putting metal through their lips and tongues which makes it easier to kiss them.